Together With Their Families

SIYABONGA
&
REFILWE

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An Invitation

There is a stillness in finding the one you’re meant to love — a quiet certainty the world holds its breath for. Please join us as Siyabonga and Refilwe begin their forever.

Save the Date

3rd
October

Twenty Twenty-Six

Counting Down To Forever

164Days
10Hours
10Mins
16Secs

3 October 2026

Chapter One

The first hello that felt like home.

The Day

Where we’ll be

3 October 2026

Ceremony

Brahman Hills

Brahman Hills, KwaZulu-Natal

Begins
14:00
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Reception

Brahman Hills

Brahman Hills, KwaZulu-Natal

Begins
18:00
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Accommodation

Staying over?

For accommodation enquiries, please contact Valerie:

Email Valerie

Order of Events

How the Day Unfolds

13:30

Arrival & Seating of Guests

The day begins — take your seat, and breathe it all in.

14:00

Ceremony

Two lives, one breath, one forever.

15:00

1st Kiss

The world held its breath — and so did we.

16:00

Canapés & Welcome Drinks

Raise a glass to the ones who made it here.

17:00

Golden Hour

In the softest light, only love is visible.

18:00

Reception

The night is yours — let it remember you.

The Dress Code

Pastel Elegance

Ladies: one selected pastel colour (kindly avoid mixing). Gents: black suits strictly

Dress to dazzle. You are walking into a dream.

For the Ladies

Ladies, please choose one of these three shades for your outfit.

Pink

#F7D2E8

Lavender

#E3D7FF

Blush Peach

#FFE1CC

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SR

Our Love Story

Some love stories don't begin with fireworks — they begin quietly, in the middle of ordinary life, where you least expect to be changed forever. We first met at an organised running club race. Surrounded by noise, movement, and strangers chasing their own targets, we had no idea that this moment — so simple, so unassuming — would become the beginning of something life-defining. It started with a glance that lingered a little longer than expected. Then a conversation that felt effortless. And somehow, in the middle of all that passing chaos, we found a sense of calm in each other — as if the world had paused just long enough for our paths to cross. From that day forward, something quietly shifted. We didn't rush anything. We simply found each other — again and again — in the kind of love that doesn't shout but stays.

From The Couple

Wedding Updates

A Little Note

Adults Only Celebration

We absolutely adore your little ones, but for our big day we're keeping the celebration adults-only. Think of it as a day out to relax, unwind, and enjoy the festivities kid-free!

Guest Policy

We are keeping our wedding cozy and intimate with just our nearest and dearest, so no extra guests or plus-ones this time. Thank you for understanding and celebrating with us!

Beverages

A curated selection of beverages will be served for your enjoyment. As the evening unfolds, a cash bar will be available for those who wish to continue celebrating.

Gift Registry

A Gentle Gesture

Your presence is the greatest gift of all. For those who have asked, we’ve registered a few gentle wishes — simply mention our names or the reference at checkout.

Registered at

Yuppiechef

Reference

YC9516802

Registered at

Carrol Boyes

Reference

Refilwe & Siya's Wedding

Registered at

Le Creuset

Reference

5396791

Registered at

Bespoke Home

Our Eternal Promise

Will you stand with us?

S & R
S & R

3 October 2026

Timeless, and ours.

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